What Happens If You Tell Your Therapist You’re Suicidal?
Telling your therapist you’re suicidal is like opening Pandora’s box – scary, but potentially life-saving.
Imagine you’re carrying a heavy backpack filled with dark thoughts.
Your therapist is like a skilled mountaineer, ready to help you unpack that burden safely.
This article is your map through the tricky terrain of discussing suicidal thoughts in therapy.
You’ll discover what really happens when you open up about these feelings.
Buckle up, brave soul!
We’re about to embark on a journey that might just save your life.
By the end, you’ll have the knowledge to take that crucial step towards getting the help you need.
This guide is a must-read for anyone wrestling with suicidal thoughts or supporting someone who is.
It’s like a lifeline in stormy waters – don’t let go!
Why Spill the Beans?
Telling your therapist you’re suicidal is like ripping off a Band-Aid – it stings at first, but then it feels better.
Many folks keep mum about these thoughts.
Maybe they’re scared of being judged, or worried they’ll end up in a straitjacket.
But here’s the scoop: your therapist isn’t the bogeyman.
They’re more like a friendly lifeguard, ready to toss you a flotation device when you’re drowning in dark thoughts.
Sharing your suicidal feelings is **crucial**.
It’s like handing over the key to your internal world.
Without it, your therapist can’t unlock the door to help you.
Remember, therapy is a judgment-free zone.
Your therapist has heard it all before – you’re not going to shock them.
However, there are some circumstances in which a therapist may be forced to break confidentiality, and one of those instances is where a client informs their therapist that they are suicidal.
What Happens Next?
1. The Twenty Questions Game
When you drop the S-bomb (suicide, that is), your therapist will kick into detective mode.
They’ll ask you a bunch of questions, like a game of Twenty Questions, but way more important.
They might ask:
– How long have you been feeling this way?
– What kinds of thoughts are you having?
– What sets off these thoughts?
– Do you have any plans to act on them?
They might even ask about guns in your home or what meds you’re taking.
It’s not because they’re nosy – they’re trying to gauge how serious the situation is.
Be honest here.
It’s like telling a doctor where it hurts – the more accurate you are, the better they can help.
Many clients are scared that if they tell their therapist they are suicidal, they will immediately be sectioned against their will.
2. Crafting Your Superhero Suit
If you’re not in immediate danger, your therapist will help you create a safety plan.
Think of it as designing your own superhero suit to protect you from those villain-like thoughts.
This plan is like your personal playbook for when things get tough.
It’ll include:
– Your kryptonite (situations that trigger suicidal thoughts) and how to avoid them
– Your superpowers (coping strategies) to use when dark thoughts creep in
– Your sidekicks (people you can call for support)
– Your fortress of solitude (how to create a safe environment)
– Your mission statement (reasons to stay alive)
– Your hotline to headquarters (emergency contact numbers)
This plan is like your secret weapon against suicidal thoughts.
It’s there to remind you that you’re stronger than you think.
Mental health tools to use when feeling suicidal will be a list of techniques you’ve learned in therapy to ground and calm yourself.
3. Calling in Backup
Sometimes, your therapist might want to bring in reinforcements.
They might ask to contact your GP (family doctor).
Don’t worry – they’re not tattling on you.
It’s more like assembling your own personal Avengers team to keep you safe.
Your GP can help with things like:
– Referring you to other mental health pros
– Discussing medication options
Your therapist will ask for your permission first.
But if things are really serious, they might need to make the call even if you say no.
It’s not because they’re mean – it’s because they care about keeping you alive.
4. The Hospital: Your Mental Health Pit Stop
In rare cases, if you’re in immediate danger, your therapist might suggest a hospital stay.
It’s like pulling into the pit stop during a race – a chance to refuel and make repairs before getting back on track.
This only happens if:
– You have a specific plan to end your life
– You have the means to carry out that plan
– You’re planning to act on it right away
Most of the time, people agree to go to the hospital voluntarily.
But if someone refuses and they’re in immediate danger, the therapist might need to call for backup (like the authorities).
Being hospitalized for your mental health might sound scary.
But it’s not like in the movies.
It’s more like a really intense spa retreat for your brain.
The Final Lap
Telling your therapist you’re suicidal is like jumping out of a plane – terrifying, but sometimes necessary to save your life.
Remember, your therapist is on your team.
They’re not there to judge you or lock you up.
They’re there to help you find your way back to solid ground.
Opening up about suicidal thoughts doesn’t automatically mean you’ll be hospitalized.
Most of the time, it just means you’ll get extra support and a solid game plan.
So take a deep breath, gather your courage, and speak up.
Your future self will thank you for it.
After all, you can’t start healing until you admit you’re hurting.
Author: Michelle Landeros, LMFT
Michelle Landeros is a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist (LMFT). She is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families thrive.